If one wishes to reach the pace of divine love, a company of true saints is the answer.
For one exclusively devoted there is only one state, no other but to leave apart the ego as main and remain absorbed in the true one.
When the mind is fixed on one maintain it within through the repetition of the name so as to maintain the true balance of self on to supreme one.
Communion with true saints is the only path to reach at.
Divine love alone is true love all others rest on the mortal material world, who have realized this may feel all the way from this mundane existence but with the blessings of true saints.
Those prepared to make a sacrifice for true one in true spirit always remained blessed from the lotus feet of great saints to meet the self and supreme within the same body one attains by the sole mercy of the lord as a human.
Hare Rama